HOW TO ENHANCE YOUR FEMININE BEAUTY AND NURTURE ITS POWER

Nurture /nerCHer/ verb: to care for and encourage the growth or development of

How beautiful and also dangerous. 
If I care for and encourage the growth of sadness, I will be sad all the time, that sadness will continue to grow and grow and grow…. eek!

If I care for and encourage the growth of smiles, laughter and peace, that smile, that laughter, that peace will continue to grow and grow and grow… wow, that feels nice.

I think it is safe to say that we are constantly nurturing SOMETHING. But what exactly are we nurturing all day everyday?

Growing up, I was instilled to:
FIGHT for what I want
Everyone is competition
Make it happen or move out the way

LEADING IN THE MASCULINE

I led a very masculine forward life and while it got me a lot of things in life like a husband, a home, a degree, luxuries… it always left me feeling icky…

“I got me a husband” but did he want to get got?
“I got me a house” but did it have to be so stressful?
“I got me a degree” but do I ever want to relive that season? 
“I got all the luxuries” but did I sit and really appreciate it all?

The answer is no.

They have all left some kind of “trauma” so to speak, because none of it came from a place of “come to me”, “I’m ready to receive”.

I went in for the kill, I was the huntress, I am the champion, I. WEAR. THE. PANTS.

Masculine energy is all about the doing, the getting, the hunting.

WHAT IS FEMININE ENERGY

Feminine energy is all about BEING, receiving, enjoying. 

I dont know about you but that feels so much better than the latter. 

Femininity is a special gift we have been bestowed as women. Femininity allows for a
vulnerable,
open,
nurturing,
and compassionate side

that inspires and brings life into the world, in all aspects of the word.

Our femininity brings life to our home, to our men, to our co-workers and partners, to our audience, to our family, to the girl serving the starbees, to the mailman and the list goes on and on.

Women are powerful, empathic, and truly magical beings and we forget to nurture the “her” within us. We forget to smile, we forget to compliment, we forget to make eye contact, to send a beautiful note to a loved one, we forget all that we are made of that actually breathes life into the world. 

We are stuck in our DOING, and that doing is exhausting, frustrating, and chipping away at our life day in and day out. 

WHAT IT MEANS “TO BE“

And the truth is, no one is asking us TO DO… all we have “to do” is BE.

Just be and you will still get the man, the house, the degree, the business, whatever you want….

And it will be fun and it will flow. 

You get to live a dreamy, peaceful, wafting in the meadows kind of life LOL.. 
You can do so by nurturing the feminine. 

Here is a little challenge for you this week to start to nurturing “her” by simply, BEING

OPTION 1
BE
Be in nature for 5 minutes (set a timer if you must) and just stare at a flower, at a tree, at a bird, at the grass and just be… let your mind, create, imagine and be still

OPTION 2:
RECEIVE
Receive a compliment without saying, “no, I look terrible today”, or “no, you’re the beautiful one.”
Instead say, “thank you, that felt nice to hear”

OPTION 3:
Enjoy your morning coffee or tea, savor it, sip it slowly, smell it, feel it going down your throat and into your belly. And smile.

I want to know how it goes. Come back and share with me in the comments.

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