How to Create a Beautiful & Loving Relationship

This is what we envision when we think of a man: “I am going to have such a beautiful & loving relationship“. Unfortuneatly, it doesn’t always play out this way. I spend the bulk of my coaching helping women achieve this. A lot of women feel frustrated because they are doing  so much to get better, to be better, to improve the situation and yet nothing seems to be changing. 

Did you catch the key word there? Doing

Doing things to get an outcome is on super super superficial level. It is not enough to bring about change in a man or anyone.

You might see a small shift in outcome for a day or two, and then it gets  bad again. 

Why??? 

Because love and marriage is an energy

it is a belief, 

It is felt, 

it is beyond the physical. So much of you, the essence of yourself is at play. 

What you do must be accompanied by the BE. 

BE a source of love… source, like it is birthed in your soul and it flows, it cannot be faked

BE a source of peace

BE kindness

BE patience

BE forgiveness

BE slow to speak.

BE…you become a match for who you are not just what you do. The BE is what people feel, the DO is what they see but as humans we are motivated by how people make us feel. 

If you are married BE all of the above as a sheer act of obedience, it is who God is asking you to BE.

If you are dating and how you feel is sad, and blocked and stunted in your growth, draw closer to God. Let God fill your void, this man will not be able to do it. This man is not leading you closer to God if he is leading you to anger, and sadness and disobedience.

As you continue to do and BE, begin to BELIEVE in miracles. WHen it looks like it isnt working, KEEP going, KEEP being, KEEP believing. 

Things don’t get better as soon as you sign up for a program, unless you BELIEVE it will get better as soon as you sign up—and then it does!

Things don’t change a month in, 2 months in or 3 months IN  unless you BELIEVE things will change and you allow changes to come into your life–it is then that you will see a shift. 

BELIEVING is the biggest component~

My superpowers keep growing. And that is because my beliefs keep growing!

I BELIEVE IN WHAT I WANT

I BELIEVE MY DESIRES ARE WORTHY

I BELIEVE GOD HAS MY BACK

Currently here is what I believe:

 I BELIEVE I am loved, desired, valued  and admired —

I BELIEVE I will be a wife again—and I am going to be one.

I BELIEVE my business brings impact, transformation and healing –and it does.

I BELIEVE opportunities fall at my feet and they do!

Because I believe I receive–THAT’S IT. I am no different than anyone, I just have unrelenting faith in God, in who he made me to be, in who I am and in what I want.

I am aligning with all the good things coming my way, up and up only! 

I am no longer available for unhealthy relationships–

I am no longer available for overstepped boundaries–

I am no longer available for feelings of unworthiness– 

I am match for Godly, sacrificial love —

I am a match for people who respect and admire my boundaries–

I am a match for feelings of worthiness–

I am a match an overflow of wealth so I can do more good in the world, give more to the world, see more of the world!

How about you?

Everytime I run She Roars

it all gets better and better. 

She Roars is the inner work. It is the shift, it is the awareness, the energy, the miracles you want to see. And it will come when you become a solid match for your desires.

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AFFIRMATIONS I use to shift my thoughts and beliefs: (use them!)

• I AM READY AND WILLING TO SEE THINGS DIFFERENTLY, GOD SHOW ME THE WAY

• I AM LOVED AND CHERISHED BY THE MAN GOD HAS BROUGHT TO ME

• I AM A LEADER, I MAKE AN IMPACT, I AM TRANSFORMING MY LIFE & LEADING OTHERS TO DO THE SAME

• I AM A SOURCE OF LOVE, PEACE, KINDNESS AND PATIENCE, THERE IS NO ONE LIKE ME
• GOD IS ON MY SIDE, HE HOLDS MY HAND, I CAN DO HARD THINGS.

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